If Your Man Loves To Go Down On You While Having S*x, This Is What It Means.
By dipper /
In the Sex and the City episode called "The Freak Show," Charlotte meets Mr. Pussy, a man known for giving mind blowing oral sex. This is interesting because we don't see oral sex on women on TV and in theaters as much as we see intercourse or fellatio, and when it does, it is often in the context of extreme cases, as it was in SATC, or viewed as X-rated. For example, the romantic drama Blue Valentine was initially given a rating of NC-17 because it had a cunnilingus scene, never mind that it was between a married couple.
Ryan Gosling, who stars opposite of Michelle Williams in the film, was angered by the MPAA's decision. "There's plenty of oral sex scenes in a lot of movies, where it's a man receiving it from a woman — and they're R-rated. Ours is reversed and somehow it's perceived as pornographic," he told AceShowbiz.com. The project eventually received an R rating.
Among other reasons, the lack of cunnilingus in the media seems to affect the way we view it in our private lives. Although several sources say that there is not a significant gap between couples who engage in cunnilingus and those who practice fellatio, the latter is often considered more "normal."
When a man loves giving oral sex, it can make their partners suspicious but in many cases, they shouldn't have to be. Continue reading to learn why men actually love giving head.
#1. For some guys, it's the view that makes it.
Even if you haven't mastered self-love and positive body image, your body probably drives your partner crazy. When he's down there, he sees everything. The thought of it might scare you, you might feel exposed, but it turns him on. Not everyone gets to see this part of you.
#2. It really is about equality for some men.
I have a good friend who was raised by a single mother. In fact, he grew up in a household of women. He has two sisters and three aunts that visited often. He told me that living with them taught him a lot about the unique struggles that women go through. That's why he's disgusted at the way some of his male friends treat and talk about the women that they're dating. He noted that going down on his woman is one his favorite things.